“Be courteous to all but intimate with few; and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.” -George Washington-

Trusting people is really hard, at least for most people. This statement may sound cliché, but this is the ugly truth.

 We often are confused as to what should we tell others. As if there is a ‘management’ within ourselves to regulate the brain, heart, and mouths to communicate something. Our brains easily command us to talk about all things to others, and it impulsively is greeted with this  nasty mouth. The heart takes control. Before brain ordered mouth to speak, there’s a room for hearts to first intervened. Hearts made ​​us think again, whether someone is worth knowing something? How many parts of stories should we open? All of them? Half? Just the surface? Saying lies as an alternative? Or do not say anything at all and innocently pretend it? Whatever the decisions, it’s a reflection of our hearts at that time.

‘to tell or not to tell’, there must be an underlying reason. We can not say ‘nothing’ because hearts can’t do lie. It’s so natural that people nowadays tend to generalize this world with them. Life moves so fast that there is no stopping time to pursue one thing and another. Sometimes, it makes people forget that there are still others, who may be untouchable, invisible, because the whole mirror they see on this earth is only themselves with all of their stuffs. No wonder if trust to other person, even the closest one, will slowly fade away. How could someone trust and being trusted if he did not see the elephant in front of his eyes and too busy to recognize other things? A person tends to run a thousand miles to find something, but was, not, and will never satisfied with the results, so he continues to run and get away.  He might have forgotten that maybe what he’s looking for is there, around him, reminding him, but he never cared. How far could you run? How strong could you survive then turn back and finally get what you are looking for all this time? How would it feel if what you are looking for is not as beautiful as you expected, but could simply make you happy? We have always believed in ourselves, but there are times when intuition of others is too precious to be forgotten. If you’re asking me how to cherish that intuition, I’ll be saying that you just need to simply have faith in them. CMIW 😀